Self-reliance
I grow up under the influence of chinese society, therefore I cannot agree to this philosophy. Maybe it is because we are really family-oriented. Unlike the americans, Chinese people always put their family on the first priority. It is common to see people in hong kong live with their family till they get married. Not saying that we are not capable to take care of ourself, but you know Hong Kong is a much much smaller place than the US ,and so it is remarkably expensive to rent an apartment (see we only lives in apartment) which is not a 18 yrs old or a college student can afford. Moreover, your parents are the closest people to you on Earth, would you really want to leave them alone and never come back?
